Wednesday, May 7th, 6:30-9:00 pm

Old Main - Delbarton School, Morristown, NJ

Our benefit celebration is named the "Abbot's Table" because hospitality, especially at the abbot's table in the monastery dining room, is at the heart of Benedictine way of life,

In his Rule (Chapter 56), St. Benedict wrote:

Let the Abbot’s table always be with the guests and the pilgrims. 

But when there are no guests, let it be in his power to invite whom he will of the brothers.

And in Chapter 53, “The Reception of Guests,”

All guests who present themselves are to be welcomed as Christ, for he himself will say: I was a stranger and you welcomed me (Matt 25:35).

In welcoming all of us, their friends and supporters, as guests to the “Abbot’s Table,” the Benedictines of St. Mary’s Abbey honor Christ’s presence in us, and wish to share with us the spirit of their Benedictine monastic lives.

Wednesday, May 7th, 6:30-9:00 pm

Old Main - Delbarton School, Morristown, NJ

Our benefit celebration is named the "Abbot's Table" because hospitality, especially at the abbot's table in the monastery dining room, is at the heart of Benedictine way of life,

In his Rule (Chapter 56), St. Benedict wrote:

Let the Abbot’s table always be with the guests and the pilgrims. 

But when there are no guests, let it be in his power to invite whom he will of the brothers.

And in Chapter 53, “The Reception of Guests,”

All guests who present themselves are to be welcomed as Christ, for he himself will say: I was a stranger and you welcomed me (Matt 25:35).

In welcoming all of us, their friends and supporters, as guests to the “Abbot’s Table,” the Benedictines of St. Mary’s Abbey honor Christ’s presence in us, and wish to share with us the spirit of their Benedictine monastic lives.

Wednesday, May 7th, 6:30-9:00 pm

Old Main - Delbarton School, Morristown, NJ

Our benefit celebration is named the "Abbot's Table" because hospitality, especially at the abbot's table in the monastery dining room, is at the heart of Benedictine way of life,

In his Rule (Chapter 56), St. Benedict wrote:

Let the Abbot’s table always be with the guests and the pilgrims. 

But when there are no guests, let it be in his power to invite whom he will of the brothers.

And in Chapter 53, “The Reception of Guests,”

All guests who present themselves are to be welcomed as Christ, for he himself will say: I was a stranger and you welcomed me (Matt 25:35).

In welcoming all of us, their friends and supporters, as guests to the “Abbot’s Table,” the Benedictines of St. Mary’s Abbey honor Christ’s presence in us, and wish to share with us the spirit of their Benedictine monastic lives.

The McBride Family 

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The McBride Family 

Scroll down to learn more about them!

The McBride Family 

Scroll down to learn more about them!

The McBride Family 

The McBride family was introduced to Delbarton in the early 1950s as Frank and Nevins became great friends with Father Stephen Findlay, O.S.B., and helped build Trinity Hall.  In the 1950s, Frank, Jr., Daniel, Tim, Nevins, Peter and David all boarded at Delbarton staying at Old Main during the week.  David later became a Trustee.  Michael and Beth Ann followed as Trustees.  Another group of McBride’s attended the school in the 1990s and 2000s--David, Robert, Michael, Matt, Jack, Chris, JJ, Peter, Jr., and Coles.  There are 2 McBride’s currently attending Delbarton--Will and Luke. And Dr. Mark has been the school’s team doctor for 25 years.

David and Barbara McBride '65, P '94, '03

David Sr. followed his brothers, Nevie and Peter, as a boarder at Delbarton in 1960 and became good friends with many of the priests and brothers, especially Fr. Arthur Mayer, as he was his Floor Prefect in Old Main and Golf Team Moderator. Their relationship grew over time and eventually Fr. Arthur married David and his wife of 53 years, Barbara. He did so, however, only after cautioning her on the altar, in front of 250 guests, as to what she was getting into. After graduation, David moved on to Georgetown University where he earned both a BA in the College and a JD in the Law Center. He also served in the Army Reserves during and after Law School. Upon graduation, David practiced law for 14 years before joining the family business as CEO. During this period David joined the Delbarton Board of Trustees and, in 2000, was made a Hall of Honor Member by the Alumni Association.

Mark and Virginia McBride P '07, '14

Mark and Virginia McBride’s reflections on Delbarton School reveal a deep appreciation for the school, shaped by both personal connections and shared experiences over the years.

Their initial awareness of Delbarton came through family stories and evolved into a more involved relationship after moving to the area in 1986. Mark had grown up in Bergen County hearing stories from his older cousins about traveling the local roads to get to a school where his cousins called Old Main home Monday through Friday! Virginia heard plenty about the school that had “famous” sports teams, rigorous academics and fun annual events from her Maguire cousin network. 

Mark's professional involvement with Delbarton began through his medical practice when he joined Dr. James McDonough. Within a few years the practice – later known as Tri-County Orthopedics – became the medical practice of record and cemented their place within the community. 

The fact that Virginia and their children were present at sporting events, cheering for the Green Wave and watching Mark in action, illustrates how integral Delbarton became to their family life. Delbarton is a community that helps build a sense of belonging. The experience of having their sons, Jack (class of 2007) and J.J. (2014) become “lifers” further strengthened their bonds. They witnessed firsthand the positive impact of the school's environment on both their boys’ character development and friendships, while simultaneously cultivating lasting connections with other parents and community members.

Virginia and Mark appreciate the approach that Delbarton embodies—balancing academics, athletics, spirituality, and social relationships—creating a dynamic and nurturing atmosphere. Their story exemplifies how Delbarton School is not just a well-respected educational institution, but a community that fosters growth and strengthens bonds. It underscores what a special place Delbarton is.

Michael and Beth Ann McBride P '01, '04, '07

From the beginning, we knew that Delbarton was the right place for our boys. In the 1990s, Abbott Giles visited our house in Ridgewood in an effort to attract students from Bergen County. Giles and a number of Delbarton seniors spoke about the Benedictine principles and their Delbarton experience. We were very impressed and knew that Delbarton would be the right place for our boys. They all had great experiences and developed friendships and solid principles that will last for a lifetime.

The McBride Family 

The McBride family was introduced to Delbarton in the early 1950s as Frank and Nevins became great friends with Father Stephen Findlay, O.S.B., and helped build Trinity Hall.  In the 1950s, Frank, Jr., Daniel, Tim, Nevins, Peter and David all boarded at Delbarton staying at Old Main during the week.  David later became a Trustee.  Michael and Beth Ann followed as Trustees.  Another group of McBride’s attended the school in the 1990s and 2000s--David, Robert, Michael, Matt, Jack, Chris, JJ, Peter, Jr., and Coles.  There are 2 McBride’s currently attending Delbarton--Will and Luke. And Dr. Mark has been the school’s team doctor for 25 years.

David and Barbara McBride '65, P '94, '03

David Sr. followed his brothers, Nevie and Peter, as a boarder at Delbarton in 1960 and became good friends with many of the priests and brothers, especially Fr. Arthur Mayer, as he was his Floor Prefect in Old Main and Golf Team Moderator. Their relationship grew over time and eventually Fr. Arthur married David and his wife of 53 years, Barbara. He did so, however, only after cautioning her on the altar, in front of 250 guests, as to what she was getting into. After graduation, David moved on to Georgetown University where he earned both a BA in the College and a JD in the Law Center. He also served in the Army Reserves during and after Law School. Upon graduation, David practiced law for 14 years before joining the family business as CEO. During this period David joined the Delbarton Board of Trustees and, in 2000, was made a Hall of Honor Member by the Alumni Association.

Mark and Virginia McBride P '07, '14

Mark and Virginia McBride’s reflections on Delbarton School reveal a deep appreciation for the school, shaped by both personal connections and shared experiences over the years.

Their initial awareness of Delbarton came through family stories and evolved into a more involved relationship after moving to the area in 1986. Mark had grown up in Bergen County hearing stories from his older cousins about traveling the local roads to get to a school where his cousins called Old Main home Monday through Friday! Virginia heard plenty about the school that had “famous” sports teams, rigorous academics and fun annual events from her Maguire cousin network. 

Mark's professional involvement with Delbarton began through his medical practice when he joined Dr. James McDonough. Within a few years the practice – later known as Tri-County Orthopedics – became the medical practice of record and cemented their place within the community. 

The fact that Virginia and their children were present at sporting events, cheering for the Green Wave and watching Mark in action, illustrates how integral Delbarton became to their family life. Delbarton is a community that helps build a sense of belonging. The experience of having their sons, Jack (class of 2007) and J.J. (2014) become “lifers” further strengthened their bonds. They witnessed firsthand the positive impact of the school's environment on both their boys’ character development and friendships, while simultaneously cultivating lasting connections with other parents and community members.

Virginia and Mark appreciate the approach that Delbarton embodies—balancing academics, athletics, spirituality, and social relationships—creating a dynamic and nurturing atmosphere. Their story exemplifies how Delbarton School is not just a well-respected educational institution, but a community that fosters growth and strengthens bonds. It underscores what a special place Delbarton is.

Michael and Beth Ann McBride P '01, '04, '07

From the beginning, we knew that Delbarton was the right place for our boys. In the 1990s, Abbott Giles visited our house in Ridgewood in an effort to attract students from Bergen County. Giles and a number of Delbarton seniors spoke about the Benedictine principles and their Delbarton experience. We were very impressed and knew that Delbarton would be the right place for our boys. They all had great experiences and developed friendships and solid principles that will last for a lifetime.

The McBride Family 

The McBride family was introduced to Delbarton in the early 1950s as Frank and Nevins became great friends with Father Stephen Findlay, O.S.B., and helped build Trinity Hall.  In the 1950s, Frank, Jr., Daniel, Tim, Nevins, Peter and David all boarded at Delbarton staying at Old Main during the week.  David later became a Trustee.  Michael and Beth Ann followed as Trustees.  Another group of McBride’s attended the school in the 1990s and 2000s--David, Robert, Michael, Matt, Jack, Chris, JJ, Peter, Jr., and Coles.  There are 2 McBride’s currently attending Delbarton--Will and Luke. And Dr. Mark has been the school’s team doctor for 25 years.

David and Barbara McBride '65, P '94, '03

David Sr. followed his brothers, Nevie and Peter, as a boarder at Delbarton in 1960 and became good friends with many of the priests and brothers, especially Fr. Arthur Mayer, as he was his Floor Prefect in Old Main and Golf Team Moderator. Their relationship grew over time and eventually Fr. Arthur married David and his wife of 53 years, Barbara. He did so, however, only after cautioning her on the altar, in front of 250 guests, as to what she was getting into. After graduation, David moved on to Georgetown University where he earned both a BA in the College and a JD in the Law Center. He also served in the Army Reserves during and after Law School. Upon graduation, David practiced law for 14 years before joining the family business as CEO. During this period David joined the Delbarton Board of Trustees and, in 2000, was made a Hall of Honor Member by the Alumni Association.

Mark and Virginia McBride P '07, '14

Mark and Virginia McBride’s reflections on Delbarton School reveal a deep appreciation for the school, shaped by both personal connections and shared experiences over the years.

Their initial awareness of Delbarton came through family stories and evolved into a more involved relationship after moving to the area in 1986. Mark had grown up in Bergen County hearing stories from his older cousins about traveling the local roads to get to a school where his cousins called Old Main home Monday through Friday! Virginia heard plenty about the school that had “famous” sports teams, rigorous academics and fun annual events from her Maguire cousin network. 

Mark's professional involvement with Delbarton began through his medical practice when he joined Dr. James McDonough. Within a few years the practice – later known as Tri-County Orthopedics – became the medical practice of record and cemented their place within the community. 

The fact that Virginia and their children were present at sporting events, cheering for the Green Wave and watching Mark in action, illustrates how integral Delbarton became to their family life. Delbarton is a community that helps build a sense of belonging. The experience of having their sons, Jack (class of 2007) and J.J. (2014) become “lifers” further strengthened their bonds. They witnessed firsthand the positive impact of the school's environment on both their boys’ character development and friendships, while simultaneously cultivating lasting connections with other parents and community members.

Virginia and Mark appreciate the approach that Delbarton embodies—balancing academics, athletics, spirituality, and social relationships—creating a dynamic and nurturing atmosphere. Their story exemplifies how Delbarton School is not just a well-respected educational institution, but a community that fosters growth and strengthens bonds. It underscores what a special place Delbarton is.

Michael and Beth Ann McBride P '01, '04, '07

From the beginning, we knew that Delbarton was the right place for our boys. In the 1990s, Abbott Giles visited our house in Ridgewood in an effort to attract students from Bergen County. Giles and a number of Delbarton seniors spoke about the Benedictine principles and their Delbarton experience. We were very impressed and knew that Delbarton would be the right place for our boys. They all had great experiences and developed friendships and solid principles that will last for a lifetime.